Brynn Martello - Dress for Success Twin Cities Success Story
Published for Dress for Success Twin Cities on October 6, 2021
Bryn Martello is not just a woman. As one of Dress for Success Twin Cities U Leaders, she has grown into a figure of grace and poise with her two fingers on the heartbeat of supporting women through thick and thin. Her goal of creating her tribe comes from her own rocky past.
“I didn’t have community [of women] to help me move forward,” Bryn said, “There was no locus to keep my centered. I wanted to be a professional woman and a successful mother- a political force that can speak out.”
Bryn’s story begins after being in the Shakopee Women’s Prison multiple times for alcohol offenses. While service her sentence, Bryn got involved in Challenge Incarceration Boot Camp. Through an intense period of 18 month – in 3 phases- participants who are charged with nonviolent drug and property offenses can be considered for early release. The goal of “Boot Camp,” as she says it, comes in three phases. The first phase was volunteer work in the community. On the first month of phase 1, Bryn was chosen to help at Dress for Success Twin Cities as a sales volunteer.
Bryn’s time volunteering struck up contacts with the professional women at DFSTC; Tammy Tragar and Program Director Megan Meuli among them. From watching these women at work and being exposed to the possibilities, Bryn saw what kind of woman she wanted to be in the future, leading her to study as a Pre-Law Major. The experience working at DFSTC fueled the need to develop her skills of compassion, activism, and a strong sense of boundaries. And out of that came the need to have a mentor, “a paragon to run towards instead of away from.
With her graduation from Boot Camp, a new resume, and interview skills to boot, Bryn’s professional life drastically changed for the better; immediately, there were people wanting to interview her for “at least three jobs- [which] is super rare.” Along with her new job at Habitat for Humanity, it took a heartbeat decision to continue her work service at DFSTC. As she continued, Bryn’s self-worth only grew. At the workplace, “they didn’t see me as less than- they saw an intelligent woman.” At DFSTC, Bryn continued to do weekly volunteer work and help clean and stock outfits, even through personal struggles. In this new period of equilibrium, “I had a position to help women who were in my position 10 years ago.” Bryn tells, “I am a woman who had talents [and] a positive, strong community member.” Her defining moment was speaking at the Securis Financial Annual Meeting. Bryn was asked to tell her story and about how DFSTC had affected her. While nervous, she poured her heart out to the rapt audience and openly talked about her life. When she was finished, Bryn was swarmed with support. “Multiple people came to me with job offers… they spoke to me as an asset.”
But like all things, there is struggle. Bryn learned to be honest about them; relapses before court dates being one of them. Even so, her path was not to be only downwards but meandering up and down. Her departure from Habitat for Humanity led to being a part of DFSTC’s U Lead Program- it fueled her with the motivation to continue in nonprofit work as the life and career she wanted.
Bryn’s definition of success comes from pushing forwards. It comes to find balance, being at peace, and always helping others. “True success is working exactly within our means,” she says, “Just because you are good at something, doesn’t mean you’ll enjoy it. Find your community and be balanced. It’s all to help humanity and redefine society as beneficial for all. No woman should be an island.”